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Brat Bondage

Elaine — Sun, 17 Aug 2008 22:13:03 +0000

Sometimes the purpose of rope bondage play is to throw a loop around someone and tie them tight — fast! The core of this demo is specific to doing quick “resistance scene” bondage, such as how to ensnare, entangle, hogtie, the pulley-system takedown, surprise methods, and suchlike. It includes simple brat-bondage such as good things you can do in under 5 seconds with bootlaces and dental-floss bondage. It’s information on how to use restraints for resistance play within the framework of having fun! This demo also includes basic introductory info, a show and tell of various equipment, and discussions on safety.

Brattiness: The Most Playful Play

Elaine — Sun, 17 Aug 2008 21:35:07 +0000

Elaine thinks brats are the most darling creatures, and is often shocked to find herself in a slight minority. This demo is for brats, brat lovers, and for otherwise perfectly well-behaved bottoms who wouldn’t mind being just a little naughty once in a while. And it’s definitely for those who find themselves with a double-handful of deliciously sparky brat, and would like to stick a few more tricks up their sleeves.

If you don’t feel “Yes, of course, Master!” or “I’ll do anything you say, Mistress!” on the tip of your tongue, you’re not alone. If you delight in a bottom who runs out of the room and hides when you pick up a paddle, you’re (at least metaphorically) not alone either.

Besides the usual whys and wherefores, we’ll talk about brat behaviour in the wild, how to make your adult brat have a tantrum, and ways for tops to gracefully safeword just before the nervous breakdown. We’ll demonstrate how to tie up a brat in moments, despite the squirming, and what to do with them once we’ve caught ‘em.

Come explore the form of play where “Oh yeah? Make me!” are the words guaranteed to make all our eyes light up.

This workshop is generally 1.5 hours in length.

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Fisting: The ins and outs of vaginal fisting

Elaine — Sun, 17 Aug 2008 22:01:11 +0000

Being fisted is a delightfully pleasurable way of fucking that involves every nerve ending in her body. Fisting is an act of co-operation and trust — we have to practice a lot to get there, warming up and using lots of lube, and — need I go on? Being the fister means participating in your partner’s pleasure in a way that could almost be called selfless.

In this hands-in full demo youâ€™ll learn the ins and outs of vaginal fisting as well as hygiene and safer sex precautions, safety, fun, lube choice, and relaxation.
Handouts will be given to participants. (Pardon the pun.)

Interrogations, Takedowns, Play Rape and Brats: Resistance Play

Elaine — Sun, 17 Aug 2008 22:03:19 +0000

If you donâ€™t feel â€œYes, of course, Master!â€ or â€œIâ€™ll do anything you say Mistress!â€ on the tip of our tongue, youâ€™re not alone.

Resistance play ranges from light-hearted brattiness to rough takedowns and edgy interrogation scenes and covers a lot of territory in between! Weâ€™ll talk about take down safety issues, how to make your adult brat have a tantrum, and how to know the right time to tell the secret location of buried treasure.

Explore the form of play where â€œOh yeah? Make me!â€ are the words guaranteed to make all your eyes light up.

Percussive Play 101; Soft and Hard-Hitting Information

Elaine — Tue, 23 Aug 2011 16:07:35 +0000

Like to make an impact on people? This demo is all about smacking, whacking, and pounding delightful people with various implements, including our own hands and feet. We’ll cover beginner’s theory and chat about safety –– and then jump right in to fun techniques, including how to paddle a newcomer, caning for accuracy, encouraging our inner sadist, and provoking (sexy) fear in the person we’re playing with. We’ll also talk about how to ramp up a scene slowly so we can play for a long time and really get our bottom floating, and why sometimes it’s better to just deliver six of the best. A large number of volunteers may be singled out and smacked in various negotiated ways. (The key words here are volunteer and negotiated.)

Workshop by Elaine Miller

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RolePlay- Getting the Drama Back Into Your Sex Life

Elaine — Sun, 17 Aug 2008 21:41:56 +0000

Your brain is supposed to be your biggest sex organ. If so, then roleplay is one of the best ways to titillate that particular erogenous zone. Roleplay is a temporary flight of fancy you agree to take with your lover, becoming someone different, or finding a new way to view your normal circumstances. Itâ€™s the grown-up version of the childrenâ€™s game Letâ€™s Pretend.

In this interactive seminar weâ€™ll talk about the dynamics of role-play, and how to negotiate and construct a scene. Weâ€™ll go over common roleplay roles and themes and touch on properly setting the scene. Then weâ€™ll have some theatresports, but donâ€™t worry â€“ there will be no nonconsensual volunteers.

Topping a Novice Bottom

Elaine — Sun, 17 Aug 2008 22:09:19 +0000

Come with your thinkers turned on, because this discussion ranges from the ethical quandaries of scene-related responsibility, to combating common misconceptions, to some tips on getting the over-shy new bottom to spill her hottest secrets, to ways to make pain attractive to someone who does not yet have the framework to process it.

Itâ€™s a discussion, so be prepared to cozy up and share everything you know, whether youâ€™re top, bottom, new or experienced.